Preserving your inner child
If only we could preserve our inner child we would not let education and growing up get in the way of evolving into curious, compassionate and creative human beings.
This thought. has been on top of my mind since my professor in design school set a goal for us to “reclaim our childlike freshness” through the design foundation program. Several decades later my understanding of what it means to preserve my inner child became clearer when I heard Sir Ken Robinson say,
“Imagination is the source of every form of human achievement. And it’s the one thing that I believe we are systematically jeopardizing in the way we educate our children and ourselves.”
I dedicate my next project, a book of poems to children – to help them learn to preserve their inner child. The first thing I did after deciding to publish this book is to seek guidance from several children. I invited children between the ages 5 and 13 to draw a sketch of the character that represents their inner voice – one that they have a conversation with when they feel, confused, upset or angry. I realized that this inner voice is indeed the voice of their inner child .
One of the children, a ten year old girl from Michigan, drew a character that I found most evocative. I developed several iterations of this sketch and shared them with friends and their children. Children made an instant emotional connection with this character. Their imagination began to fly. One girl climbed on a dining table and demonstrated how this character would dance. I found a central character for my book. Bobo was born from the collective creativity of children.
My next step is to develop the right approach to introducing Bobo to the collective imagination of children. I would like my book to be a platform for children to develop a relationship with Bobo and for Bobo to emerge as a metaphor for their inner child.
Here is the poem in which I introduce Bobo. The book will evolve through a dialogue with children. This would be my contribution as a designer to influence social imagination with the primary purpose of preserving the inner child.
find your bobo
bobo is
the child inside you:
your best friend
bobo
understands you
when you feel
confused
upset or
angry
you can talk to
bobo
when you feel happy
you can sing and dance
with Bobo
you can find Bobo
in your imagination
you can see bobo
with your eyes closed
you can hear bobo
in a quiet room
bobo never
leaves you alone
when people grow up
and forget their bobo
they lose
the child inside
when they lose
the child inside
they lose
curiosity
love and
creativity
in bobo
you will always
have a friend
when
you need one.
find your bobo